Keep Expecting Even If You Gets Disappointed

Its my curse ,that in life I always expect something from the persons whom I am very close to.I know that expectation leads to disappointments.But I haven't still learnt anything from my experiences,and still I don't now if I would learn anything ,unless I am willing to change.There is another side to this too ,I make people to expect too much from me but most of the time I keep them disappointed too.Don't know why I am so good at  getting disappointed and bad at fulfilling expectations.

Quite often expectation becomes such a big part of our lives, that when we look back we realize that all the vivid memories we have in relation to certain event are from the times when we were expecting it to happen, not the actual happening of that event. Our minds are capable of producing such vast amounts of imaginary imagery, that it can reach the point we end up living in our own fantasy soap opera. When the reality hits us in the face and it turns out that it doesn't live to our expectations(and it never does),we suffer the consequences. This can happen over and over and over again until some of us can’t take it anymore.

Expectations from ourselves and the people around us can  be a major disappointment factor.I am  a normal human being without super powers and psychic abilities; thus I  can’t satisfy everyone’s expectations of me. Accept that about me and I will do the same about others whom from I expect.Perhaps that's the best way not to go through another disappointment again! Please do remember that all good things happen when you least expect them.But still it hurts when one person who knows each and  everything about you,keeps getting disappointed by you and vice versa. Well I know its really tough not to get expectations at this point of life,perhaps that made me feel the  worst.I now realize that,I guess the mindset has to change,I will try to give the best.

Being all said and done ,I don't know if I will be able to not to expect anything from the person I love the most,perhaps that's the beauty of that relationship. Atleast you are getting disappointed by the other half,and its never a bad feeling.In my case I expect more,the each time I get disappointed .For all other people around me ,at last ,I think the best and most common way of not getting disappointed is not to expect anything from anyone.But that's my case,for those who expect from me ,give me sometime,I will definetely try to make your wait worth.