Excitement In The Air

A huge weigh of expectations and anticipation is surrounding me .The big day is getting nearer and nearer.They say that don't expect too much in any case,that it may hurt you in future.Yes,its true that expectations hurt ,but I don't know why my mind or heart doesn't stop expecting.Exactly 38 days from today .I go into a new phase,a new turn in otherwise a very ordinary life.I know that expectancy is there ,but what about this excitement?Other day ,in office I was talking to one of my friend,about marriage ofcourse ,said to me that she has never seen a guy so excited about his marriage as I am.The question that araised in my mind was that is there any wrong in getting excited with one's biggest event in his life?I always felt that I could adjust to any condition,with anyone and that's the confidence that keep my excitement moving forward.

Life has never been ever smooth for me.There has been a lot of problems of different types,added along with humanely mistakes,life was becoming a miserable hell for me ,few years back.But I choose to hang in there and fight.I now feel I am reaping rewards for passing that troublesome days.And that's the confidence in me ,that is ,nothing bad will happen in my life again,since life has already given a lot of misery.So don't I have the right to expect atleast something in life.People close to me knows me that I hate to be alone,I always need someone in my company ,to talk ,to fight,to discuss anything and everything under the sun.So the timing has perfect me,to get into a relation,to feel that excitement ,in first hand.I am glad that's been working for me so far,which give me the courage to move on in the same pace.

"A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person" have read it some where before.Standing in a very important junction in my life I feel this is very much applicable.Love in any form is a wonderful thing,to love and being loved is the basis of the human life itself.Actually tell you something,I am in love and its a wonderful ,exciting feeling to be getting the same love back in a even more greater way.Some people said to me after marriage everything changes,yes the two are no more individuals,they are a family,or even a part of family.They have to adjust,compromise,each and everything not only for themselves,but for the happiness for their dear ones too.But if the essence of love remains the same ,does anything change?I am strong optimist in this case because,if you believe in love,it will give endless joy ,whatever the situation.I am excited in that case too , because I have a girl whom I believe ,don't need any explanation in this regard.

When the two unknown individuals come together to tie the nuptial knots, they don't have any expectations from each other. Knowing and understanding each other takes a significant duration of time. And during this period they learn to compromise and accept each other as they are. But in case of love marriage there are higher expectations from both the sides. Though, the couple does possess an advantage of knowing each other but the circumstances and responsibilities change after marriage. Many couples find it hard to adapt to the changing scenario and expect the things to move in the same direction as they were before marriage. This is one of the main reasons that later lead to unjustified and unreasonable demands put up by both the sides.For me,its an arranged marriage,so the grown ups say expectations are less,don't need to worry about it .But I have a problem now that I am in love all of a sudden ,we both know each other inside out ,so does it mean expectations can become a burden?Well only the future knows the answer.

Some people believe in love at first sight, while others believe it takes time to love someone. In life having a companion is a very important factor. It’s hard to form a good relationship right when you meet that person. It takes time, patience, and trust to love that person and positively is sure it will last. If a relationship goes well, it will eventually end in marriage.I sincerely hope that I can be a good husband,a good friend,a good son,son-in-law,and various other roles.I would love to take up various responsibilities,and to do it in my way and moreover I wanted to keep my love happy always.There are no sure shot rules for a successful marriage. Neither are there any set methods that guarantee 100% success rate.So what do you say?Is excitement/anticipation such a bad thing at all?